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One of the top priorities we have as nurses is to keep the patient satisfied. Satisfied patients give positive feedback and great reviews that helps motivate us to do our jobs day in and day out. In this day and age, we realize how a bad review or feedback can quickly go viral on social media outlets, or how a negative experience survey can land us in the hotspot at work. Nobody wants this, believe me- I know. So what is it that makes the patient satisfied? Is it the glitzy waiting room and brand-new iPads at patient registration? Could it be the high-tech apparatus that is being used for their patient care? Or maybe even the food they are being served as an inpatient?


Funnily enough, no. Those things actually have little to do with patient satisfaction. One of the top things that patients hope for in their healthcare experience is empathy, followed by communication. Patients want to know that we understand their pain and what they are going through. They want to feel a connection with the individual who is caring for them, someone they feel like they can trust. Our job as nurses is to (also) do just that! In a study done of 112 new patients at the Massachusetts General Hospital Department of Orthopedic Surgery, it was discovered that 65% of patient satisfaction was directly attributed to the physician’s empathy. As we take care of the physical needs of the patient, we should also focus on the emotional needs of the patient. Yes, we ourselves are so tired from the stress of our workday, but we put those feelings aside patient after patient, to ensure that they are receiving the best of us.

Hospitalized patients and their family members are experiencing a lot of anxiety. Through our communication, we will be able to alleviate some of the stress they are feeling. We can inform them of any tests they will have to go through and how long they should expect them to be, as well as how long they may have to wait before being taken to the tests. If we are ending our shift, informing them of who will be taking care of them next will cause them to feel more at ease with the transition. The simple act of just letting them be informed about what is going on will make a world of difference in their experience.


In various patient surveys, things such as wait times, waiting areas and ease to provide insurance were not nearly as important as being informed, the nurse’s attention to their needs and the overall respect for their privacy. As an example, a small factor that correlates with the patient’s satisfaction is ensuring eye to eye contact with them instead of having our eyes focused on computer screens. With most of our patient information systems being electronic nowadays, it can be easy to focus our attention on computer screens. We all need to make sure we are taking a moment or two for eye to eye contact with the patients. Face to face time is one of the most important aspects of human interaction.

Many of us nurses decided to work in this profession because we care. We want to bring good into this world and we want to make a difference. We knew that our profession was not the most glamorous one, but we knew the intense feeling of satisfaction we would feel at the end of a shift. Caring, showing compassion and having empathy for our patients can be so physically and mentally exhausting day after day, but we know that in order to satisfy our patients and allow them to have a positive healthcare experience, we must do just that.

We must not, however, forget that we need to care for ourselves and our mental sanity as well. Good laughs and some self-care moments will renew our mind and soul so we may provide the highest quality care to the patients we so adamantly fight for. Their satisfaction is our personal success at the end of the day. We need to make sure each patient receives the care that we would like to receive and share positive moments with them through uplifting attitudes, laughter and most of all, empathy.


Without a shadow of a doubt, nursing is one of the toughest professions that exists. It is one of the most physically and emotionally draining careers out there. Most assuredly, individuals who go into this career do not do so because of the lightness of the workload and the ease of the day-to-day duties. Quite the contrary, the long hours, strenuous physical demands and the stress and pressure that accompany this field make the everyday duties so very taxing to those who go into this profession. When daily duties involve comforting a young mother battling cancer, treating accident victims, while also being the listening ear to the patient whose family has not yet visited them, emotional burnout is quick to arrive. How then, do we carry on day after day under these circumstances?


It is a known phenomenon that nurses have the greatest sense of humor. It is a proven, successful strategy to combating the physical and mental burdens of the routine care for critically ill patients and the emotional demands of patients and their families. A good sense of humor can ease tense situations not only for the nurse but for the patient as well. A small joke when giving medicine or administering a vaccine can momentarily allow the patient to forget their current situation – a slight relief in the darkest of days.


A good chuckle or laugh offers so many benefits such as soothing tension, activating and relieving your stress response and stimulating your organs through the intake of oxygen-enriched air that occurs. In the famous words of Elle Woods from Legally Blonde, “Endorphins make you happy and happy people just don’t shoot their husbands! They just don’t.” As silly as she sounded in that movie, she was correct. Laughter releases endorphins into your brain which instantly starts to alleviate the mood. Therefore, it will help you not only in not killing your spouse but to also have a better outlook overall with all the difficult scenarios you face day after day at work.


Normal Cousins, American political journalist, once said, “Laughter serves as a blocking agent. Like a bulletproof vest, it may help protect you against the ravages of negative emotions that can assault you in disease”. The most interesting thing about this quote is that Cousins actually suffered from a rare condition called ankylosing spondylitis, an inflammatory disease that can cause some of the small bones in your spine to fuse. His doctor told him that only one in 500 patients recovered. Since Cousins knew his odds were low and the quantity of medication he was taking was so high, he decided to additionally treat himself with laughter therapy. Through years of successful medication and laughter therapy, Cousins lived to see the age of 75.


We should also don the bulletproof vest of laughter every day along with their Personal Protective Equipment. As gloves, gowns and masks are important in preventing contact with diseases, so is laughter! It is understandable that in a job where you face life crisis every single day, you may think it is impossible to lighten up. Do understand, however, that humor is an excellent coping system. Letting off some steam through laughter helps you keep your sanity in the roughest of days.


Sharing stories with your co-workers of humorous situations you encountered throughout the day and finding humor together over things only those in the healthcare field will understand brings connection and levity to your day. Going home and watching a good movie and permitting yourself to full-blown guffaw will help alleviate stressors. If you are not one to watch television and prefer time spent scrolling your phone, use memes and humor online to have some hearty laughter.


Don’t keep all the laughter to yourself though, be sure to share it with your patients and include them in your positive spirit. In the words of Voltaire, “The art of medicine consists of amusing the patient while nature cures the disease”. Be sensitive to the fear and frustration the patients are currently experiencing with their health diagnosis, but know that when you make a humorous connection with the patient it can lighten the room and allow you to connect with the patient more quickly.


Remember to be mindful of patients who might not understand what you or other nurses are laughing at outside of their door. Be sure to laugh with the patients and not at them. Sharing this will be a benefit for everyone.


As a fellow nurse, I know the care and compassion we give to others every day at work. We face grueling situations that make our days heavy. Using laughter to combat the difficulties in life will bring joy to us, our families and those we work with. Thank you, nurses, for always caring for those around you and your amazing personalities that help us through these difficult times.

© 2024 by Nurse Jessica Sites

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